7.30.2009

dreadies and love.

if you know me, or have been visiting this little space for a while now...perhaps you remember reading this post from over a year ago. in it i made the declaration that i was FINALLY going to start dreads after years of pining over and coveting them from others. well... as you can see, i don't have dreads in my hair. after or during the time when that post was created, i did a lot of researching and looking and thinking. i had loads of conversations with people. some very, beautiful, inspiring on-line women with dreads (like this one...and this one) shared e-mails of encouragement, some bits of advice on getting started, and support with me as I reached out to them concerning this new beginning. i joined this amazing and lovely flickr group. and would begin dread centered conversations with anyone that i came across in the real world who had dreads that i thought were beautiful and funky. i held it in my mind that i would begin just as soon as i felt my hair was long enough not to shrink up too much when the actual "locking" began. so...my hair grew longer, life began to take my mind away from my hair... and the dreads have yet to be put in. but it is near time. and it will be done. because it is one of those things on my life list. one of those things that i want to at least try, so that i am not old and longing and full of "oh i should have's!". the time is near! it has been a loooooooong time coming. it has been a desire of mine for years to have them and i have been admiring them since my early teen years. that crush hasn't gone away by now, so it speaks to me of destiny. hee hee! the wonderful thing about timing and the unfolding of the whens and hows of the way things work is that while i visited boho in early may...we both randomly and passionately recited our love for dreads to one another in unison after seeing a beautiful dread head walk past us. and we whispered our shared dream of wearing our own some day. shortly after that, we exchanged encouragement towards the making of that dream coming true. and so, as perfectly as the universe offers... i got to buy the dread kit that she no longer needed after making the decision to get her locks done professionally! how utterly serendipitous is that? i love. i see it as some fun bits of beauty added to my journey as i begin to walk into the land of dreadlocks. i still have not decided on the exact "when" but i trust that it will be within the month or two. and i envision it to be a combined effort of the loved women in my life gathering around me and locking my hair as we celebrate the beauty of transformation and the following of ones own bliss. there is so much more that goes into this. it is only the beginning, but i thought i would re-introduce my intention in this space...as it serves to be one chosen method of manifesting my hopes and dreams. i will come here to chart the journey in the only way i best know how...with courage and honesty and with my heart leading the way.

11 comments:

jenica said...

you are so beautiful.
i can't wait!

xoxo

kimberly said...

let the journey begin!....
xoxo

Debbie said...

This is part of the reason I love you. You stay true to your heart and follow it and believe in the path it leads you. Can't wait to see the transformation. Love you...

Mon said...

I love that you're no longer willing to put it off. Nobody wants the 'what ifs', and yet, too many of us end our days with them.

You go for it!

PixieDust said...

Such a beauty, and taking dreads to such a poetic lovely breathtaking.

I have to admit one of the happiest times with my hair were sudo-dreads and cornrows.

Can't wait to see ya!

(((HUGS))),
Love,
me

rebecca said...

I also find dreadlocks very appealing...oh, and the men look so beautiful and sexy in them as well, don't you think? Nice that you are going forward with this...'dread on!'

latisha said...

do it! can't wait to see your photo journey of it all. your moments are so beautifully captured. and if you need an extra pair of hands id love to see how it's all done!

cassie said...

yea!!!!! get going girl!

Cam said...

Rock it, Mamacita!

I cannot wait to see your lovely lady locks...

:)

Stacy (mama-om) said...

yes, who knows the when of things...

I cut out an image for a tattoo when I was 22... never got it... but it came back to find me again, more than ten years later, in a flash one afternoon, and the next day I was at the tattoo parlor and now carry the image at the base of my spine...

(om)

dread on, girl! :)

Georgia said...

OK... I have not visited your blog in a while...

We need to talk!!!

I also have finally decided to get dreads. And so we have got to talk!!!!

I just left a message on your facebook and now I am cracking up, because it was about exactly this :)

Destiny? I think yes.

xoxoxo